There aren't very good unix tools for this so I decided to fix them, I started with jpilot which was easily the best and fixed all the things that anoyed me.
Uber sync will:
I made installation instructions for this once but I can't find them - so mail me and I'll help you install it.
Horay!! this is what I've been searching for give me the files
**************************************** Syncing on device . Press the HotSync button now **************************************** Username is "James-IIIe" User ID is 65003 lastSyncPC = 0 This PC = 485686621 User Password is "09021345070413440c08135a3215135dd217ead3b5df556322e9a14a994b0f88" Doing a slow sync. Syncing AddressDB Syncing ToDoDB Syncing MemoDB Syncing ExpenseDB Doing mail DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD ....................................../........................................ ....................................//./.......................................... pilot-mailsync 0.6.1: 2 messages sent from handheld. 158 messages delivered to handheld. Address book -> Address book <- Installing Backing up Will exclude: MailDB Will exclude: AvGoDocsMQ Will exclude: Plucked No change, skipping 'AvGoPref'. Backing up '/home/james-3e/pilot/hotsync/AvGoVersion.pdb'... OK No change, skipping 'DocCategories'. Backing up '/home/james-3e/pilot/hotsync/AvGoChanMQ.pdb'... OK No change, skipping 'FlexSyncDB'. ... No change, skipping 'FireViewerMultiDB'. No change, skipping 'FireViewerNoteDB'. No change, skipping 'VendorsDB'. RAM backup done. Doing calendar AvantGo! Fetching 'AddressDB'... OK Fetching 'DatebookDB'... OK Fetching 'ExpenseDB'... OK Fetching 'MemoDB'... OK Fetching 'ToDoDB'... OK Fetching 'Saved Preferences'... OK Finished.